Have you noticed how we all cheer like crazy for folks on their way up? Simone Biles flipping her way into our hearts, Taylor Swift crafting the soundtrack of our lives—pure magic. But then, there’s this weird switcheroo. Once they hit what some consider “the top,” the cheering can turn into… well, something less cheerful.

Lately, scrolling through social media feels like watching shade get thrown like it’s an Olympic sport. We’re all aboard the love train until someone gets a bit too shiny, and suddenly, it’s “Whoa, not that shiny!” We’ve got to ask ourselves: Why the switch? It’s kinda like we’re creating Bad Blood when there’s no need for a fight, just because it feels unfair we’re not the ones under the spotlight.

Here’s a thought as we dive into Super Bowl mania and see even more adorable T-Swift and T-Kelce memes everywhere: Maybe, just maybe, when we’re tempted to throw shade, it’s actually our own stuff we’re grappling with. Jealous much? Or maybe it’s a nudge to work on our own dreams and happiness instead of eyeing someone else’s trophy.

So, here’s the deal: Let’s keep it real and supportive, no matter how high someone soars. Because tearing others down? That’s on us, not them. Karma is what you say about others from behind your keyboard. Let’s spread good vibes, celebrate the wins (big and small), and remember—someone else’s spotlight doesn’t dim yours.